Tip Tuesday: Start with What They Love

Photo of hands making the shape of a heart below the words "Tip Tuesday: Start with What They Love", with the logo and name of Community Supports Network at the bottom.  This image illustrates the love we have for building skills of our clients based on their personal interests.

Turning Interests into Skill-Building Opportunities

At Community Supports Network (CSN), we know that progress happens when people feel seen, heard, and motivated. That’s why one of our favorite strategies for promoting growth and independence is simple — but powerful:

👉 Start with what they love.

Instead of forcing a one-size-fits-all activity, we lean into each person’s interests to create meaningful, engaging experiences that naturally encourage skill development.


✨ A Real-Life Example from Today

One of our clients loves exploring new places and playing games. She’s curious, energetic, and thrives when there’s a bit of adventure involved. Rather than sticking with a traditional structured activity indoors, her DSP got creative.

Together, they built a community scavenger hunt and took it into local stores around town. 🎯

With a simple list of items to “find,” the activity suddenly became:

✅ A game (which she loves)
✅ A chance to explore different environments
✅ A way to practice navigation and awareness
✅ An opportunity to engage with store staff (communication + social skills)
✅ A platform for working on money skills and decision-making
✅ A confidence booster with every successful item found

What looked like a game was actually a customized, person-centered plan in motion — rooted in joy but full of purpose.


🎯 Why Interests Matter in Support

When activities are aligned with a person’s passions, they are more likely to:

✔ Show enthusiasm and stay engaged
✔ Take ownership of their progress
✔ Build confidence in their abilities
✔ Develop new job skills more naturally
✔ See themselves as capable and independent

Starting with interests doesn’t just make activities fun — it builds trust, sparks motivation, and opens the door for deeper, long-term growth.


💡 DSP Tip: Ask This First

Before planning your next session, try asking:

“What does this person love — and how can I build skills around that?”

Whether it’s cooking, music, shopping, sports, or exploring the community, there’s always a way to transform interests into opportunities for independence.


🌱 When we build with joy, we build confidence. When we start with interests, we build futures.

At CSN, independence doesn’t begin with instructions — it begins with excitement.

Editor’s note: If you are looking to help build independence for a loved one who has special needs, please take a look at our individual supports page for more information.

Serving Morris, Passaic, Bergen, Essex, Hudson, Union, Warren, Somerset, Hunterdon & Sussex Counties